Play with different kinds of pressure and stimulation to figure out what feels the best for you, and when you do find it, you'll know. "If you want some extra help pinpointing your G-spot, Le Wand has a Curve Attachment Cover, which best matches the curve of your vagina's front wall where the spot is found. The Ripple Attachment also works great, as the bumps massage your G-spot as you move it in and out," she said. Start with low vibrations, brush them against your special spot, and then pull back out again to graze your clitoris. As you get more and more aroused, you can pump up the vibrations, she said, increasing the intensity.ĭone too soon? Don't worry. "If you finish too fast, remember the bliss of being a vagina owner - your refractory period is super short, and you can come again and again in completely different ways within minutes," she said.
"If you're ready to give G-spot stimulation a go with a partner, riding is a great - and fairly easy - position to help you reach that spot," she said.
This works regardless of whether your partner has a penis or is wearing a strap-on dildo, because you can take advantage of that upward curve in either their skin or silicone member that targets the G-spot's location, she said. This is about three inches into your vagina, right where your front wall feels round and puffy. "Try gyrating and moving in different rhythms and angles to find the position that strikes that spot," she said. " Not only is doggy style a fan favorite, but believe it or not, when your partner enters you from the back (with penis, dildo, or fingers), they're actually poised to slide right up against your secret spot as they move back and forth," she said. To make sure you're getting the most out of this position, try angling your body in different ways to hit your G-spot. "For example, start off on all fours and see how that feels, and then lower your chest all the way to the bed while arching your back and pushing your pelvis toward your partner's movements," she said. Let your partner know what feels good and what's working so they can be sure to be an active partner in the experience and give the most amount of pleasure. This position is a twist on missionary that is meant to really angle your partner toward your G-spot. "Rather than getting into standard missionary partner, pick your legs up and put them over your partner's (the penetrator's) shoulders. They can situate themselves on their knees," she said. This angle helps your partner reach your G-spot more easily because of the angle at which your hips are propped, she explained. Spooningįor a more intimate way to reach the G-spot, get snuggly on your side with your partner around you. "Coming from behind, the giver will be able to reach your G-spot directly (with either a penis or dildo)," she said. Bonus points: spooning will give your partner plenty of access to stimulate your nipples, clitoris, and other fun spots on your body at the same time. To hit your G-spot, "lay on your back (even better if it's on a flat surface like a table or counter) and have your partner enter while standing up. Lift your legs and cross your ankles in an X so they lay on opposite shoulders," she said. "This plays up the natural curvature of an erection or curved dildo, making it super easy to reach the G-spot," she explained. The "X" will create a tighter fit for a little extra friction, too. And even if you can't nail the positions and erotic angles first time, you'll definitely have fun trying."Have the giver sit up with their legs straight out, while you straddle them and lean back on your arms. From the surprisingly simple to the more advanced, you'll be a sex position ninja in no time. If you're looking for some sex position inspiration then the kamasutra is a wealth of ideas. You don't have to contort yourself into acrobatic positions either. Something as simple as changing where you place your legs or your partner's bum can add excitement to your sex life and hit pleasure points you didn't even know existed! Some of the hardest Kama Sutra sex positions include: They can be tough to get the hang of but that doesn't mean you can't have fun trying – just don't do yourself an injury and contort your body beyond its capabilities! There are a number of more advanced sex positions in the Kama Sutra that require a high level of balance, strength and flexibility.